all you need is love

yikes!

2009-02-20T17:05:40Z

wow guys, i am so sorry that so much time has passed since i've updated! i'm making a huge post right now, but here a few to hold you over! :)

I want more from a relationship. I want a man who'll prove he loves me, who'll pursue me to the ends of the earth, woo me -- maybe even send me flowers or a poem or two.

I think the hardest part about this situation is
neither of us knows what's going on.
Neither of us knows what the other is thinking
& we're both trying to make decisions
based on the information we don't know.
^^ totally my life in a nutshell right now

It's not about doing the things you love,
it's about doing things with the one you love!

I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

all I'm saying is that somewhere out there is the man you are supposed to marry. And if you don't get him first, somebody else will, and you'll have to spend the rest of your life knowing that somebody else is married to your husband!

when you're attracted to someone, it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously. So what we think of as fate is just two neuroses knowing that they are a perfect match.

if i were a boy

2009-01-06T19:00:33Z

Sometimes I wonder who he's picturing when he looks at me and smiles.

How did I go from turning the corner of possibility to being nothing at all?
( Dawson's Creek )

In life we do things. Some we wish we had never done. Some we wish we could replay a million times in our heads. But they all make us who we are, and in the end they shape every detail about us. If we were to reverse any of them we wouldn't be the person we are. So just live, make mistakes, have wonderful memories, but never ever second guess who you are, where you have been, and most importantly where it is you're going.

The nice part about being a pessimist is that you are
constantly being either proven right or pleasantly surprised.
( George F. Will )

When I first saw you I was like wow, don't talk, just kiss.
( Teddybear ; Toybox )

All these promises that we make and break, why is it that you think people get married? Because we need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet, I mean what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything, the good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things, all of it, all the time, every day. You're saying, your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go unwitnessed because I will be your witness.
( Shall We Dance )

After all... I'm just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.
( Notting Hill )

When you're attracted to someone, it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously. So what we think of as fate is just two neuroses knowing that they are a perfect match.
( Sleepless In Seattle )

kiss me under the mistletoe

2008-12-21T02:46:50Z

People who were in love cannot be friends. It's a fact of life.

At this moment there are 6,470,818,671 people in the world. Some are running scared. Some are coming home. Some tell lies to make it through the day. Others are just not facing the truth. Some are evil men, at war with good. And some are good, struggling with evil. Six billion people in the world, six billion souls. And sometimes... all you need is one.
[one tree hill]

You make my heart smile when I see you; I fall deep into your gorgeous eyes and your smile.
It stops my ears from hearing, my lips from speaking, my mind from thinking, but not my heart from loving you.

somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

I've come to realize that you can't get what you want usually. You can't just sit there waiting to be noticed. You can't sit there expecting someone to love you, because the person who feels the same way just may be waiting and sitting like you are. You need to find each other.

And if you get caught looking at him,
remember he was looking back.

a smile is all it takes for my heart to go wild.
so i think it would be a good idea for you to stay a while.

There's something in
your eyes that keeps me
hanging on and please just
stop looking at me like that.

desidero essere il vostro tutto.
[I want to be your everything]

there's gotta be somebody

2008-12-19T16:23:41Z

i wonder what it feels like
to find the one in this life, the one we all dream of

♥

i'll be waiting for the real thing
i'll know it by the feeling
the moment when we're meeting, will play out like a scene
straight off the silver screen

♥

nobody wants to be the last one there
everyone wants to feel like someone cares
someone to love with my life in their hands
there's gotta be somebody for me like that

♥

you can't give up, looking for a diamond in the rough
you never know, when it shows up, make sure you're holding on
cause it could be the one, the one you're waiting on

♥

all nickelback lyrics!

sit here

2008-12-16T23:03:29Z

at the end of the day, all we really want is to be close to somebody.
So this thing where we all keep our distance, then pretend not to care
about each other…its usually a load of bull.
So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to.
And once we’ve chosen those people we tend to stick close by…
no matter how much we hurt them. The people that are still
with you at the end of the day, those are the ones worth keeping.
And sometimes close can be too close, but sometimes that
invasion of personal space is really exactly what you need.
[ grey's anatomy ]

every time you walk away or run away
you take a piece of me with you there

as long as I got eyes
i’ll have a sight for you

like the clouds, you drift me away
and like the sun, you brighten my day

and then my soul saw you and it kind of went,
"oh. there you are. i've been looking for you."

& there wasn't anything
wonderfully amazing about him
but there was something that
she just couldn't resist.

there's always a little bit of whore in
every girl when it comes to that one guy.

you put on a good show but I'd be willing to bet
that you're suffering more than you let anyone see.

when i'm with you...

2008-12-02T16:41:04Z

with friendship, it doesn't matter how long you've known each other,
or how many fights you got into. what matters is who said "I'll be there for you,"
and then proved it.

Friends wait for the first day of school
to tell you how much they missed you,
while best friends are the ones calling you non-stop
during the summer to make plans to spend time together.

Friends are the people you're reminded of when you see something they might like & you know they'd love it because you know them so well. They're the people whose pictures you have everywhere & whose faces are in your head regardless. They're the people you feel safe around because you know they care about you. They call just to see how you're doing, because a friend doesn't need an excuse.

I think best friends are the ones who have been through what you've been through, they understand where you're coming from & where you're going. It's always a challenge to stick by a friend who's making choices we disagree with & are sometimes even dangerous. But it's at these times that our friends need us most.

would you mind...

2008-12-02T16:36:59Z

I don't know what it is about you.
maybe it's the way nothing else matters when we're talking,
or how you make me smile more than anyone else has.
it could be the way that you say the exact right thing at exactly the right time.
but whatever it is, I just want you to know that it means everything to me.

the worst thing you can do to yourself, is fall for someone harder than they fell for you

when you start to think about him,
& how he makes you laugh,
& how he makes you feel when you're around him,
you realize you care about him more than you thought you did.

you were the one that made me laugh,
you were the one who made me smile,
you were the one that made everything I did so much better,
but you`re also the one that just broke my heart.

Sometimes you just gotta figure, if he doesn't care,
you're missing out on someone that does.

could someone please tell me...

2008-12-02T16:32:47Z

Life kicks you around sometimes.
It scares you & it beats you up.
But there's one day when you realize you're not just a survivor.
You're a fighter. You're tougher than anything life throws your way.
And you are.
[ One Tree Hill ]

It's actually pretty amazing when you love life,
it's something you look forward to,
& suddenly who you are & who your friends are
doesn't really matter anymore. It's what you do that makes things special.

Life doesn't hurt until you think about it,
how much things have changed.
Who you've lost along the way,
and how much of it was your fault.

Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there.

teach me what you know

2008-12-01T00:27:42Z

As you go through life you'll see there is so much
more that we don't understand & the only thing we
know is things don't always go the way we planned.
[ The Lion King ]

And don't tell me that you're not scared because I know that you are. I mean, I've known you too long and seen you push away too many good things to let you push me away right now. My whole life, you have been the most beautiful thing in my orbit. And my feelings for you were what proved to me that I could be great. And those feelings were stronger and were wiser and more persistent and more resilient than anything else about me."
[ Dawson's Creek ]

People spend their whole lives trying to live up
to other people’s expectations and being told what to do.
I say, screw that. Be free.
Do what you want, go where you want, and reach for the sky
because life has no limits or boundaries.
Boundaries are just other people’s fears, and limits are
just other people’s expectations. You only get one chance to
do all the things that life offers you.
Have no enemies, no regrets,
no fears and then you’ll really have lived life.

Change isn't easy.
Changing the way you live means changing how you think.
Changing how you think means changing what you believe about life.
That’s hard, sweetie.
When we make our own misery,
We sometimes cling to it even when we want so bad to change.
Because the misery is something we know.
The misery is comfortable.

be free ♥

2008-12-01T00:22:27Z

when I see you,
I run out of words to say

she just wants you to know
that she loves the way you laugh
and your stupid dumb smile
has her falling head over heels

it's ironic how when a person likes someone,
they don't do anything about it because they
are so scared of rejection. yet, a lot of times,
it turns out, that person you were so scared
of telling them how you felt, actually felt the
same way and just waited for you to do
something. doesn't that tell you something?

sometimes the most real things in life
are the things that can't be seen

an old couple walks by,
both ugly as sin,
but he has her
& she has him.
and that's beautiful.

once in a lifetime right in the middle of an ordinary life,
life gives us a fairytale.

if life gives you lemons...

2008-11-26T03:31:11Z

you may not end up where you thought you'd be
but you always end up where you're meant to be

do whatever makes you happy, but do it now.
live life for the moment cause everything else
is uncertain. Take advantage of what’s right in front of you.

hope is a driving factor in helping us stay on course in life.
it may feel as though it comes and goes, but in reality there
is always hope. there is always a chance for something else
to happen, and you need to have faith that it will.

the thing about plans is that they don’t take into account the unexpected.
so when we’re thrown a curve ball in life, we have to improvise.
of course, some of us are better at it than others. some of us just have to
move on to plan B and make the best of it. and sometimes what we want is exactly what we need. but sometimes, sometimes what we need is a new plan.
[ grey’s anatomy ]

there’s going to be a lot of changes in your life.
It’s not the changes that matter, it’s how you
react to the changes.
that’s what makes you who you are.
[ boy meets world ]

no matter how hard life gets,
the important thing is to live it with hope.
[ boy meets world ]

just say the words...

2008-11-26T03:27:03Z

too many times we put our hearts on the line,
hoping that this time, it’ll be different. too many
times we play the waiting game because we’re
too afraid of making decisions and taking chances.

I just want to stare at you, all day, all night.
It just seems like my eyes can't get over the fact that
someone as beautiful as you could exist.

i’ve never met anyone quite like you before.

a girl’s heart is an ocean full of secrets
[ titanic ]

be mine?

2008-11-26T00:23:56Z

i think you're friendly, interesting and really sweet at times.
however you're completely rude, you leave conversations midway all the time without a word.
it's like a slap in the face for me to walk away from you.
why should i continue to put my heart on my sleeve?
i wish you could give me a reason to stay,
but you don't even know at all that i'm interested in you.
i'm not saying i'm in love with you,
i just think there's more to you and i want to see that side of you
that nobody else knows.

there's someone out there for everyone.
except this is like the world's largest game of hide and go seek.
and you bet that boy has found the best hiding spot there is
and he's waiting for you to find him. or better yet,
maybe he'll get tired of waiting and try to find you instead.

we deny that we’re tired. we deny that we’re scared. we deny how badly we want to succeed and most importantly, we deny that we’re in denial. we only see what we want to see and believe what we want to believe. and it works. we lie to ourselves so much that after a while, the lies start to seem like the truth. we deny so much that we can’t recognize the truth right in front of our faces.
[ grey’s anatomy ]

sometimes you gotta quit thinking so much.
if it feels right, it probably is. so just go with it.
[ sex and the city ]

you have to decide what's most important to you:
keeping your pride and getting nothing,
or taking a risk and maybe, just maybe, having everything.
[ gossip girl ]

once in a lifetime means there’s no second chance
so I believe that you and me should grab it while we can
make it last forever and never give it back
it’s our turn and I’m loving where we’re at
because this moment’s really all we have.

You & me everyday.
Sounds like a plan.

I just don’t know why he likes me.
I mean, he’s way smarter, and we
have like, less than nothing in common.
He’s just going to get bored with me,
because pretty much, all guys do.
[ the o.c ]

So I don't think anyone has to wonder anymore,
they all know it's you that puts this big grin on my face.

I believe that two people are connected at the heart
and it doesn’t matter what you do or who you are
or where you live. there are no boundaries or barriers
if two people are destined to be together.
[ julia roberts ]

To create a puzzle you must
first take it apart, make a mess
of the pieces, & try a few wrong
fits. for only then can you be
certain that the final product is
exactly what it should be.

and know the next time that you make a wish upon a star
I'll be wishing on the same one that you do.
and every night I'm all alone in some burnout highway town,
I'll be thinking of the day I met you.

life is good

2008-11-26T00:10:02Z

i used to feel so alone in the city. all those gazillions of people and then me,
on the outside. because how do you meet a new person?
i was very stumped by this for many years. and then i realized, you just say "hi".
they may ignore you, or you may marry them.
and that possibility is worth that one word.
[ augusten burroughs ]

it’s not that I believe everything happens for a reason.
It’s just that I think that some things are meant to be
broken. Imperfect. Chaotic. It’s the universe’s way of
providing contrast, you know? There has to be a few
holes in the road, because that’s just how life is.
[ the truth about forever ]

most of our life is a series of images.
they pass us by like towns on the highway.
but sometimes a moment stuns us as it happens,
and we know that this instant is more than a
fleeting image. we know that this moment,
every part of it, will live on forever.
[ One Tree Hill ]

Life doesn't give you the people you want.
It gives you the people you need.
To help you, to hurt you, to love you, to leave you.
To make you into the person you were meant to be.

screws just fall out all the time
the world is an imperfect place.
[ The Breakfast Club ]

You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done.
It is what you haven't done that will torment you.
The message, therefore, is clear. Do it!
Develop an appreciation for the present moment.
Seize every second of your life and savor it.
Value your present moments. Using them up in any
self-defeating ways means you've lost them forever.
[Wayne Dyer]

don't let them bring you down

2008-11-25T23:59:42Z

it's sad when people you know become people you knew.
when you can walk right past someone
like they were never a big part of your life.
how you used to be able to talk for hours, and now,
you can barely even look at them.

all of a sudden, I didn’t fit in anywhere.
Not at school, not at home… and every
time I turned around, another person I’d
known forever felt like a stranger to me.
even I felt like a stranger to me.

stop listening to them and be who you are.
do as you please. think what you want.
and don’t forget who you are.
[ Cameron Diaz ]

I miss being friends, I really do,
but I just can’t stand being taken
advantage of and being treated
like crap anymore. I just can’t take it.

it’s hard to get rejected by the one
you most expected to be by your side.

times might get hard...

2008-11-25T23:50:43Z

you made my mind up for me
when you started to ignore me.

I don’t feel loved. I go through every day
and I don’t think anybody loves me. and
I know it’s pathetic, but it’s the way I feel
and I’m too young to feel this way.
[ Dawson’s Creek ]

people say they wish they had a happy ending.
I just wish I had a story.

she’s banged up mentally, emotionally, literally
and metaphorically, but everyday she walks outside
with a smile on her face because that’s who she is.

i do.

2008-11-25T22:21:48Z

and maybe sometimes love
needs a second chance
because it wasn't ready
the first time around.

have you ever been in love?
it's like a black hole
once you're in it
it's hard to get out of it

you never know where the next miracle is going to come from,
the next smile, the next wish come true.
but if you believe it’s right around the corner, and you open your heart
and mind to the possibility of it, to the certainty of it,
you just might get the thing you’re looking for.
[ one tree hill ]

cause when i looked into your eyes, and you
dared to stare right back, you should've said
"nice to meet you, i'm your other half."

love is feeling comfortable and safe with
someone, but still getting weak knees when
they walk into room and smile at you.
[ the o.c. ]

All i know is that you make me happier than i thought i could ever be,
and if you let me, i'll spend the rest of my life trying to make you feel the same.
[ friends ]

his hello was the end of her endings,
her laugh was their first step down the aisle.
his hand would be hers to hold forever,
his forever was as simple as her smile.
he said she was what was missing,
she said instantly she knew.
she was a question to be answered,
& his answer was i do.
[ sex and the city ]